As if she doesn't know. From all I can see, her way is to let you have the freedom you would to act as you please. Even if it would lead to utter chaos and revolt. If you're yourself, then you're acting in accordance.

[looking back up, she's glad he isn't making her feel guilty for the doubts. it's why she had to come to him, spill her heart, because she can't bear to pretend to be not about it yet.]

...Did you think about turning her down?